wait but really tho

wait but really tho

#truth  #haha  

for even if the sun stops waking up over the fields
I will not leave, I will not leave ‘til it’s our time
so just take my hand,
you know that I will never leave your side

it’s been over two years, but recently i’ve started to feel very random surges of anger towards you. i spent a long time feeling bad about the way things ended, but over time, the guilt has slowly been replaced with bursts of resentment, frustration, and anger because you were such a fundamentally crappy person (to me). 

i used to be what i called an anti-feminist. i genuinely believed that women should not deserve equal treatment as men. i didn’t even think women should vote because our opinions don’t matter. i was even proud to feel that way. it wasn’t until recently that i realized the connection between my anti-feminism and you. tell me, what kind of a person are you if you could make someone believe their own gender was worthless? you burned into my mind the notion that i was inferior because i was a woman, and that my thoughts, my opinions, and my dreams were worthless. i look back and feel so sorry for my former self, for letting you control me and for believing awful things about myself that were never true. i am angry now because i never realized it before - i never realized how you (so carelessly) peeled away my self-respect, my self-confidence, my self-worth until i became the person that you saw me to be.

and it still sickens me that you bought those guns. i can’t believe i was willing to raise kids with you with those fucking monsters in the house. you claimed self-defense but they were always disassembled and locked in a box, so explain to me how that would work in the case of a break-in. i always had this uneasy feeling that they were meant for me. again, what kind of a person are you if you made someone feel like their life was in jeopardy living with you?!

i am infinitely better without you. i am compassionate, and loving, and confident, and strong, and independent, and very, very happy to be me. i honestly couldn’t say i was any of those things when i was with you. this is only the tip of the iceberg. i’ll save the rest for another time when i am angry at you. this has been so wonderfully cathartic. 

accio-percabeth:

sketch-elf:

A muggle-born’s sibling sends them a howler in the middle of the school year and it arrives while they eat. When they open it, all it does is simply scream “WHAT TEAM?”. Nearly all the muggle-borns shout “WILDCATS!” before returning to their meal, leaving the pure-bloods in total confusion of what the hell they just witnessed.

I accept and fully support this headcanon

this combines two of my favorite things and I love it.

#haha  

today at work, i talked to a girl for a long time and afterwards, she requested to my supervisor to be pulled out for testing next monday (instead of friday) so she could see me again. it was really cute, but i told her she was welcome any time without needing an excuse to come see me. her eyes lit up and she smiled the hugest smile.

i’ve re-decided that high school isn’t so bad after all. 

cutest thing i’ve ever seen

cutest thing i’ve ever seen

❝ I cannot help thinking that there is something to admire in everyone, even if you do not approve of them. ❞

E.M. Forster (via wordsnquotes)

❝ Fluff rice with a fork, never stir it with a spoon.
Vaseline is the best night time eye cream on the market.
You can buy alcohol and chips with your parents’ gas station credit cards.
If you force something, you’ll break it. That could be good or bad.
It’s important to read the care tags on your clothing and follow those instructions.
Related: don’t wash and dry j. crew wool sweaters.
Changing your car’s oil is not optional.
Whatever physical objects you acquire you will one day have to put into a box and move.
You’re allowed to disagree with negative feedback.
It’s always worth reading the instruction manual.
Nostalgia, like any drug, can be a poison or a remedy.
Pets are like human friends but better in every conceivable way.
Good doctors listen more than they talk.
You can’t fix a burned roux.
Floss.
Just because someone is an authority figure does not mean they are intelligent/competent/right.
Measure twice, cut once.
Get your nice jeans and dress pants tailored by a professional.
If you’re uncomfortable wearing it you will not look good.
You’re not required to drink alcohol while in a bar.
There are a few things that cure all ills: the beach, your favorite album on vinyl, and fresh garlic.
Kindness is not weakness.
Baking soda is not baking powder.
Taking Excedrin P.M. while still in public is not advisable.
Terrible people will succeed. Wonderful people will fail. The world is not fair.
Appropriate footwear is always key.
You can absolutely be too forgiving.
Real humor punches up, not down.
Reading the assigned chapters will actually help you learn the material.
There are no adults. Everyone is as clueless as you are.
Applying eyeliner well is a timeless art.
You can always leave. Awkward dates, suffocating jobs, hometowns that you outgrow, relationships that aren’t growing in the right direction.
You can always come home again.
But it won’t be the same.
Life is too short for bad books, boring movies, shitty people, and margarine.
Never underestimate the importance of eyebrows. ❞

36 Things I Wish I Figured Out Sooner - Whitney Kimball  (via seabelle)

And when you choose a life partner, you’re choosing a lot of things, including your parenting partner and someone who will deeply influence your children, your eating companion for about 20,000 meals, your travel companion for about 100 vacations, your primary leisure time and retirement friend, your career therapist, and someone whose day you’ll hear about 18,000 times.

Intense shit.

Wait But Why - How to Pick Your Life Partner  (via friendly-neighborhood-crystal)